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Taking The Responsibility In Children Education

educating children

As parents and guardians of our children, it is our duty and responsibility to ensure that they receive the proper educations. Although we can fully handling our children education by ourselves that does not mean that we can put all the responsibility to educate our children to someone else such as school teacher. Our involvement in educating our children can become the important key to develop and bring out their potential.

The first teacher that a child has is their parents or guardians. They teach the children how to walk, talk and behave while the children are growing. Therefore they also can involve in their children further education to ensure the children success, both in school and life.

Parent’s involvement in children school education

There are many things that parents can do to support and encourage their children education. Many thing around the house and environment that can become education material such as doing some activities that can be done together, playing, house chores, singing, reading activities and many more. Therefore the parents do not have to particularly provide special time to educate their children at home.

And parents can also support their children education from school from home. They can talk about the school, helping with their task once in a while, providing study material such as books, listening and discussing to their trouble at school, develop the habit of regular study and homework. These supports can help the children to improve their learning ability in school.

Parents can also participate in school activities such as chaperone, sport activities, school events, or joining the teacher and parents’ association. In this matter parents need to provide special time for these activities. Therefore for some parents such as single parents may be only able to spare a little time for it such as attending to a school event.

It would be better if the parents can establish a relationship or communication with the teachers. Therefore they can exchange information regarding the children, so there will be mutual understanding about the children, so the parents will not blindly defend or accusing their children completely when there is a trouble without understanding and knowing all the facts.

 

It is not easy to be responsible parents or guardians; it will take a lot of your patience and time. But it is a necessary effort and sacrifice to help and develop the children potential and enhance the relationship between parents and their children until the end of time.

Naughty Children

Many children have difficulty to communicate to their parents so many of them will acting up since they have unmet needs or unhappy feeling which they are trying to said to their parents.

Misbehavior’s can be caused by plenty of stuff. This could be just from mimicking the parents behavior or they acting up to get what they wants. the common reason for their numerous misbehavior is for their need for attention and acceptance. When a child doesn’t get accepted socially, they will express their disappointment with misbehavior. So if a child doesn’t get positive attention, then they will keep put on an effort to get it, even dough they will get the negative attention by misbehaving. How to know about this? Well, if your children have been acting up more and lately you’ve been particularly busy, this could be a hint.

You have to consistently show your attention and love to your kid a couple times a day. Leave whatever you are doing at the time, pick them up and sit them on your lap. Make an eye contact when you talk to them and reassure them by mentioning their name. You have to maintain the relationship with your children by hearing to what they need to say to you, ask questions, be understanding, patient, and try to stimulate them mentally. Express sincere interest about what they saying to you. If you think they need more reinforcement, spend some time with them. Each child requires some attention focused solely on them each day.

Recognizing the Teen Relationships

Teen RelationshipsMany people when they think of the word relationship automatically equate it to love or sexual relationship. According to the general definition of relationship this is any connection between two or more elements and these elements can be anything from chemical substances to human beings. So from this definition it is simple to deduct the meaning of this word applied to human beings. A teen relationship can be any kind of relationship

Between teens of the same gender

Between teens of the opposite gender, like boyfriend girlfriend relationships

Between teens and other persons of the same or different gender and different age.

The quality of these relationships can also vary, but there are two kinds of teenager relationships I’m going to talk about here;

Teen friendships and

Teen love relationships

Teen Friendships

This kind of teenager relationship will fit into all three categories above. It can exist between a teenager and other persons of same or different gender and age. A good friend – no matter age or gender – is one of the best things you can have on this earth. A really good friend that is special to you and means much to you. A person that is always there for you.

Many successful love relationships has started with friendship and this is probably the reason for its success. The better you know the other person, the better you’ll go along with him or her and in a long lasting love relationship – as man and woman – your appreciation of your partner as a friend will mean much more than anything else.

If we look at it from the other end, it seems much more difficult to build a friendship from a love or sexual relationship. In fact, I have not heard about it, maybe you have but the point is that a good friendship is always good to have both as a basis of a future love relationship and as a friendship by itself.

A teenage friendship can exist between anyone no matter what gender, age, race, background or whatever. A 13 year old girl and a 50 year old man can have a great and even lifelong friendship together as well as two teenagers of the same gender.

Teen love relationships

While you can talk quite frankly and straight forward in a friendship most of us are more aware of not hurting the partner in a love relationship. This can evolve to a degree of lies and even no communication at all just to protect your partner.

There are also more mutual expectations in a love relationship and more intimate emotions are involved than in a good friendship. A teen love relationship can be great and long lasting but if there is no basis of friendship in it the probability of sustaining it is significantly lower.

There are some legally defined limitations with regards to who can go into a teen love or sexual relationship. It is illegal for people of 18 years and above to have a sexual relation to a minor but it is definitely not illegal to have older friends.

A good friendship is one of the best gifts God has provided our lives with and even if you marry the sweetest boy or girl in the world, neither of you will be happy if you aren’t good friends.