Many parents often get frustrated because they cannot make their children help them with the house chores such as taking out the garbage, clean up their room or bring their clothes to the laundry. And parents finally end up doing the house chores by themselves.
Making the children help their parents doing the house chores is more than just simply make the house clean and in order, but also help to teach the children about responsibility in their life.
The life lessons that the kids studied in the homes are not just for the practical uses only such as the house chores that mentioned above. But, it is also include the intangible advantages also like; the important of cooperation in their life, the feeling of satisfaction when completing a task, the ability learning the value in following a schedule and their task.
Children need to experience those life lessons in to help them to handle with the obstacles and challenges that they will encounter in their life.
The ability to make a good judgment, empathy for other people and independence in many areas of their family life will much easier to planted when the children in pre-school years, although it can also be taught at older age.
These lessons could be implemented until the children leave their home. It is the parent’s duty to teach their children with these values, so the children can become contributing citizens. Schools, churches, Girl Scouts and other youth organizations can help as the supplement for the lessons that the children got in their own home.
A positive personality depends on the positive life experiences. It will better if the positive experiences occur in a supportive and safe home environment. The more success a child experiences, the better they will feels about themselves and their place in the world, and the more courage they have to take on new and different things.
When parents encourage their children to participate for the good of the family, parent will give the children the gift of courage to take risks and make mistakes and learn from it. Parents can focus to strengthen the children skill and ability order to build their self-worth feeling.
As parents teach their kids to do family chores, that is mean the whole family wins. Children will improve their self-esteem, independence and a sense of belonging. Parents will able to reduce their housekeeping duties, and they able to feel more confident for their kids and their ability to in the real world.